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How to better manage your money

"Without reflection, we go blindly on our way, creating more unintended consequences, and failing to achieve anything useful."

Margaret J. Wheatley

When it comes to sorting out our money management, finding a place to start can sometimes be the hardest part of the battle.

Regular readers of my emails and blog will know that I strongly encourage SMALL STEPS.

😣 Because money management can feel so daunting.

😣 And sometimes we just don’t know where to start.

😣 So we stick our heads in the sand and hope for the best.

However, I truly believe that confident money management is achievable for all of us.


So, what would be a good way to start?

It’s important that we:

💫 Do something that doesn’t feel overwhelming

💫 Do something that feels manageable

💫 Do something that can build into an useful habit

💫 Do something that feels like we are beginning to shift things


Want to know my top tip?

Well, before I tell you, let me ask you something …

Can you spare 3 minutes a day?

Can you?

I told you we can start small.

Well, if you’re up for it. Read on.

In those 3 minutes, I would like you to reflect on what you spent yesterday.

➡️ Check your online bank statement/s

➡️ Check your credit card/s

And write it down. That's it!

Every day.

3 minutes.

For a month minimum.


Seems too simple? Want bonus points?

I think that’s plenty to get you started. However, if you want more … then you can split those outgoings into 3 categories:

  1. Essential: Groceries, bills, housing, childcare etc

  2. Choice: Shopping, entertainment, dining, coffees out etc

  3. Occasional: Boiler service, holidays, household purchases etc



Why is reflecting on what you spent the day before my top tip?

Because by creating a REFLECTIVE SPEND record you will be:

💥 Increasing your AWARENESS

💥 Spotting BEHAVIOURS that might not be useful

💥 Identifying UNNECESSARY payments

💥 FAMILIARISING yourself with your money

💥 Making your numbers ACCESSIBLE rather than scary

💥 And informative PATTERNS will emerge

With at least a month of REFLECTING on your outgoings, you will gain INSIGHT that can INFORM your future money decisions. Hey, you could even get on board with budgeting (which would be the next stage)!


So ... are you up for it?

3 minutes a day.

Every day.

Reflect on your spend.

Write it down.

Same time.

Same place.

Little and often.

Small steps.

Commit to it.



If you would really like to give this a go, but feel a little overwhelmed and are not sure where to start, click here to set up a free mini 121 to chat about ways I could help.

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